Tonight I went to a cancer support group. I wanted to meet up with some people who have cancer, where I could talk freely about what is going on in my life, and to hear what is happening in their lives. I have been very comfortable talking with my friends and family, but talking with others that are going through some of the same things is very therapeutic.
There were 2 counselors, a lady who was ‘finished’ with her treatment/cancer, and 3 of us who were recently diagnosed. It was very good. I learned some ideas that they had to help cope with the radiation and chemo. It was really good just to talk with and hear about other people who have cancer, so that I don’t feel I am unusual or quite as alone. I learned that we all have some of the same problems other than the cancer, like the roller coaster of good news, bad news, all the tests, pokes, prods, how family, friends react, finances, etc….
One of the counselors is going to give my information to another person who had rectal cancer so that I can talk to them. We should have plenty of things to talk about! I do have a different group that I want to attend that meets only once a month, but is specific to colorectal cancer, so I am excited to attend that meeting next week.
Came out of there feeling real good, happy I went, hope to make some new friends. Thanks to my history with alcohol abuse I did not have any anxiety about going to the meeting, and know that it can be an important part of my recovery.
I am feeling physically and emotionally well today.
The man (Larry Holman) who organizes the Ride for Life had Colorectal Cancer (& has a colostomy bag) if you would like to connect with him. He's a very sweet man and would enjoy helping any way he could. He knows Lisa really well.
ReplyDeleteI glad the group made you fell a little better. That's great. Being able to talk helps with any situation.
ReplyDeleteKeep up the good work.